NO CARE

Imagine a world where no one had to worry about anything, you wake up, take a bath, eat meals throughout the day, sit in front of the television all day,probably nap in between without going to work, not thinking about paying bills,what to wear, or how to make sure your bank account doesn’t run out of cash. hmm! impossible right?

When I watch my son, I wonder why adult life is so complicated. The little fire-ball as I like to call him sure knows how to keep busy. In fact watching him meet his milestones was simply amazing. The day he took his first step was definitely the best day of his toddler life. All he thinks about is walking all over the house until exhaustion drives him to sleep. He doesn’t have to worry about anything, all he’s accustomed to, is mummy changing diaper, feeding him at intervals even when he hasn’t cried out for food, worry if that cough is the flu or not, waking up at night to check on him and make sure he’s very comfy.

In as much as we cannot  be served like children, we definitely can learn one or two from the lifestyle of a child. We shouldn’t be  irresponsible adults idling away because we want to live the life of a child but we can adopt the “No worries” attitude of a child. we definitely can bring a balance into our lives by not worrying about everything. like they always say, worrying doesn’t get anything done. it only aggravates our health and can lead to life threatening diseases.

If you find yourself worrying, then you need to off load those things. Try fixing the problem, if you worried about your finances try to budget more, or if it’s about your career try updating yourself,make sure you are still relevant to be well positioned when a better opportunity presents itself. But above all these, my greatest cure pill for worry is PRAYERS. I can’t tell you enough how it has helped lift heavy burdens off my heart.

when everything becomes so overwhelming, and have exhausted all therapy to get them fixed, i bow my head in prayer, and i feel an instant peace within. i feel refreshed to tackle everything. I have a fresher perspective and I become ecstatic like my DS (Dearest Son) who is always eager to discover new things around him, full of energy, having no care and doesn’t mind moving items one hundredth times even after have told him not to.

 

So much has happened

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Hi world,

It has really been a helluva task for me keeping up with the so many distractions my life has been made up of lately, I wish to express my sincere apology for been away for this long and not keeping up with you my fellow bloggers and readers inclusive; Its been one drama filled life I can assure you.

over the past month my life has been filled with lots and lots of changes and I look forward to sharing some on my blog.I will also like to say that i would have to avoid posting post with political undertones in the coming year and also making public comments on political issues, due to my present employment which doesn’t permit me to partake actively of political activities, nevertheless I promise you more interesting subjects in 2013.

Most importantly, I would love to bring to your notice my new marital status and that means a new page in my life has been opened. I am now married to the man of my dreams, the one my heart beats  for alone, the one who has been pushing that i get back on track my blog life. marriage is a whole new experience for me and I’m looking forward to sharing a part of that life and also look forward to been a mother. I’m still trying to fit into my new role as wife, wouldn’t say its easy but its been fun for me discovering more alluring aspects of the man I married.

The reality of love has struck,It does exist and we can still find it, there are people out there who still possess the ability to love truly and sincerely, so don’t give up on love, Its still the greatest gift of all. In the spirit and season of yuletide  I wish you a very Merry Xmas in 2012 and a prosperous year in 2013. May we all find joy and happiness always. Ciao!